"In Shallow Seas We Sail"
Anon or not, leave me anything you may need prayer for or for someone you know. And leave your or there first name and i will pray for you and them,
1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
still am very much so
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
just about 6 years
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
no, just Jesus Christ
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
i could only pray for better, and hope that it can be restored
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
yes more then i care to remember but never enough to not forgive her.
7: Have you ever cheated?
no. i know the pain it has caused me and don't wish it upon anyone else. if your going to cheat then why be in a relationship at all.
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
yes only her.
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
i don't believe in "flings" i wont be in a relationship with anyone unless im serious about them.
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
no, why be with someone if your just going to make an excuse to see someone else. breaks are just a cover and excuse to cheat without cheating.
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
like 7, but not sex.
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
i regret nothing but i do wish that i could truly take back all the pain ive caused her to hate me.
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
depending on the situation and age, relationships yes i believe theres an extent on being with someone like underage is a no go period.
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
only to her and her alone. but in general no. i don't believe you can ever fall in love with someone and then a little later fall in love with someone else, that is ridiculous and stupid. love isn't something easily found, it takes time. serious long time to find.
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
to an extent. i don't believe you can fall in love without really knowing the person in a physical aspect, not physical as in sex but in person. because you cant get that full connection with them
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
ive never ended one because ive only ever been in three.
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
ive been single for two years, but im in a relationship with god the father always.
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
yes im still friends with my ex
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
i think you would be dumb to not date your friends, because the basses of a relationship is friendship. haha.
23: How many relationships have you had?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
yes. 1 corinthians 13: 8
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
1 corinthians 13: 7-8. yeah buddy.
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
no, only because i know why i would be with someone and they only see what they want to see in that person, as would any parent want to protect there child.
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
stay on course.
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
yes, again to an extent. most people are to hungry for lustful things, if you can be faithful then yes. if you cant then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
29: What do you notice first about another person?
if there genuinely happy to see me or not.
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pan-sexual?
uhm ok, should this ever be a question in the first place. we should all be straight period. women were made into creation to be suitable for a man. not any other way around.
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
no. don't we all suffer from some kind of mental illness,
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
no, but i have been socked in the temple for no legitimate reason
33: Do you want to get married one day?
already have and don't plan to again unless its a re-marriage
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
as cute as it can be, never do it, it is a tattoo and if for any reason something happens itll be there. but i do find nothing wrong with getting things that can symbolize your relationship or that person.
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
: ) yes, id very much like that. unless you are in fact married then its acceptable.
36: Are you still a virgin?
very much so haha, but i have a son.
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
well what i always say if the person has an ugly personality then they will look ugly. if they have a sweet caring personality they will look sweet and caring.
38: Do you enjoy love films?
very much so : )
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
i cant remember, but i have given flowers
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
only a couple years.
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
a date where your so shy there's more smiles then words.
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
nope but ive seen the movies and gnome and Juliet haha
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
well our friends are a special gift given to us from god, but partner if you mean that by marriage then my partner because your partner is your family and should be more valuable to you then your brother/sister/mother/father etc.
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
i would like to think so but idk if i am haha.
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
im not to sure, i don't have any girls in my life that are really in-tune with there Christianity and that's something i really bank on now.
46: Have you ever been "friend-zoned"?
no because i haven't even like that many girls or tried to be in any relationships.
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
0.o uhm idc about fame. neither should you, 1 corinthians 13 states love is not envious.
48: What's your favorite love song?
ten thousand years : worship song.
or the last one from matt and toby
if nothing else by between the trees.
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
sadly yes, i only wish one day she can forgive me as i her.
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
because i don't want to be in a relationship unless i find someone worth fighting for again or her.
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy/girl?
someone i love.
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
ive heard i am but everyone has different opinions and what not
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
1 corinthians 13, love is not jealous.
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
the only times it should be important if there are guys/girls trying to flirt or get at you. and even then you shouldn't allow yourself get into a position like that.
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
again 1 corinthians 13. love is not jealous. but yes there are times that jealous creeps in. and clingy i feel is a good thing but the other person does need that space.
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
no i have not. she may think it was me but im the one still fighting for it. to destroy a relationship is to give up on it, you can mess up you can hurt the person but that can never destroy the relationship. giving up is the only real way you can destroy a relationship. forgiveness is a big key in not giving up. if you give up then you haven't forgiven.
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
silly? really how could you use silly to classify something so serious, and yes suicide is never the answer. suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem!
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
i think you are called to be both at certain times in the relationship.
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
never. 6-25-92, 12-17-06, 12-20-06, 3-6-08, 5-25-10, 12-26-2010. nope never forget.
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
horrible just another way to have sex and cheat with an excuse to not classify it as cheating.
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
if it is partner as marriage then your partner because again your partner is your chosen family. your spouse.
62: How do you define "cheating"?
any type of lustful fulfillment. that can be as heavy as sex down do flirting.
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
watching porn in any situation is inappropriate and disgusting.
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
its just another day the government and world created to bring money in.
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
yes to an extent because i get uncomfortable easily because my body is weak and achy : (
My good friend and high school youth pastor at the church always say “if you don’t know the answer just say Jesus”
Now when he says this he’s referring to if he’s asking a question, but what he’s really doing is instilling that in our hearts that if we don’t know the answer to something just say Jesus. Because he really is the answer to everything.
Now he’s been saying this for years now and i barely caught that a few minutes
Ago what he’s been doing with that term, (quote) it’s awesome.
He’s been planting the seed in everyone’s heart, hundreds of kids and hundreds of adults every year to know that Jesus is the answer to there questions, the answer to there problems, the answer to all there needs. The answer to life.
Just another ramble about what was going on in my head haha,
And now I’ve never been truly happier, I’m almost two years clean from my last relapse, completely sober living. Have four jobs. Working on being a high school youth group leader at church, quote possibly becoming a leader “councillor” for the drug and alcohol classes at church, I don’t even recall the last time i was seriously depressed or even wanting to cut my skin or to try and Jul myself again.
There’s seriously no explanation for this change, for my happiness even being in the same exact ” exact ” rut ive been in for years, there is nothing on this earth that can explain how all this has happened to me “change” except Jesus Christ. You may think oh that is stupid, you’ve changed because you wanted to, you got these jobs because you know people. Your not depressed because you have stuff going for you now.
But seriously, explain how i get three jobs within weeks of each other when no one can find jobs out here? How is it that for as long as i can remember I’ve wanted to die and countless attempts at my life that i no longer feel that way and I’ve never taken one counseling class no prescriptions? How is it that i no longer desire drugs after being an addict for over 7 years? How is it i no longer crave cutting? How is it that I’ve become a here father to my son? There’s so may questions that cannot be answered by something other then the holy spirit!
How is it that all if these things listed and so many more can just pass from my life without any desire to turn back to them? And how is it that a tatted up, pierced up, drop out, horrible legal background, person like me can get multiple jobs when i know people who graduated four years of college and work in fast food restaurants? I can go on and on,
The main thing that sticks out to me the most is that all this stuff happened to me seriously happened to me when i submitted my self to God!
Nothing and no situations in my life have changed, I’m still in live with someone who so clearly doesn’t even care about me anymore, I’m still divorced, i still hardly see my only child, i still have a destroyed heart from all the drugs and failed suicide attempts with overdose, I still have no money (in debt actually), my car still isn’t registered. My family still doesn’t trust me and thinks I’m all doing drugs secretly and partying, i still have insomnia and only gotten worse, I cam feel my body getting
Weaker and weaker every single day from the damage that has been done by my hands, the list goes on.
So nothing had change in am early aspect but I’m happy, i actually enjoi waking up every day, i actually care about people, i love helping people, exc. But what has happened is i have Jesus living in me working in me every day, he is the answer to my life, he is the answer to my “change” he’s the exploitation for the unanswered, the unexplainable, it truly is supernatural what is going on in me and my life.
I really don’t know where I’m going with this other then to just share my sTory a little and to share how great God can be and truly is if you submit to him!
You may think that your life is bad and that things will never change or how can you go on like this and I just want you to know that things won’t get easier, life won’t just change no matter what you do, there is nothing early that you can seek after that can help you long term out at all for the matter.
God is the only answer to your problems.
Just pic up a bible and read, listen to what god is telling you, listen to your heart and that tug you feel on yourself every single day telling you no don’t do that or that guilt thats weighing heavy on your heart today, that isn’t anything else other than the creator telling you your doing wrong and that he loves you and wants to be apart of you’re life.
I know alot of you will hate me for this post and that’s find just know that i don’t hate you and neither does the living God Yahweh. And that no matter who you are, no matter what you do it is never to late and you are never to far gone to be forgiven and saved, it is never to late to experience gods unending love.
Please be safe, and please message me if you have questions or need prayer, anon or not please if you need someone to pray for you or loved ones don’t hesitate to ask
Idc who you are, who your with or married to. Your kids, friends, family, no one in your life will ever love you unconditionally. We as humans are incapable of grasping the slightest bit of unconditional anything. We slack one major thing. We are all self righteous from one time to the next.
You will never truly understand how it feels to be loved unconditionally until, you receive Jesus Christ as your lord and savior and live for his glory and walk with him in your daily lives.
“the LORD is good to Everyone. He showers compassion on all his creation.” -psalms 145:9-