"In Shallow Seas We Sail"
Friends always ask if i can have someone watch my boy for a few hours, or if someone can watch him and we go skate down the hill,
And well the answers yeah i have people whod be happy to watch him, people who wouldnt mind giving me a little break.
But as tired as i may be and as bad as i want to skate or go hang out with some friends or even go to the movies with them, the answer will be the same. No :)
Spending time with my son is way more important then a movie, a sesh, or even just hanging out. If it isnt something me and him can do then ill pass as much as i want to.
When i dont have my boy i can use that time to hang out and skate whenever im free from work, church and bible study.
My child will always come first to my own personal needs.
This rant is really me just noticing how many fathers even mothers out there who really put there kids last on there list of priorities, parents choosing stupid things over there kids, parents not showing up when said, fathers not being there, mothers going from guy to guy, people are even now trading there duties as parents for technology, i have friends dealing with this and it sadens me not just for them but there children as well. There kids dads or moms abandoning them for pointless things like drugs, friends, alcohol, parties, or moving to different cities, states just to get away from there duties as a parent to be with friends, i also dont like fact that when they dont have there kid/kids with them that they act like they arent even parents. There good with the kid when he or she is around but when gone they dont exist -.-
When your a parent your a parent full time, child always on your mind, childs needs before your own. If you cant do those simple things then youll never really be a parent.
You all know who you are.
Im just sick of seeing guys hurting girls, girls hurting guys, and most of all both guys and girls destroying kids lives because there so selfish and can care less about there sons and daughters
This isnt directed to any specific person tho it may appear it. I just have friends with kids whos dads abandon them, treat them awful, and i also have a few friends whos babys mothers took off or even just sleeps around and treats the guy like crap for no reason. Its been bugging me for years, even on facebook, instagram you see mothers or fathers posting how great they think there life is because of parties, friends, boyrfriends/girlfriends and on the side theres there child. Its just breaks my heart cuz these children deserve so much better then selfish parents, who cant see the damage they are doing to there own child and even the spouse who is still there for the kid, trying to make things work or trying to live day to day knowing that the other doesnt really care for them.
If you cant be a full time parent then maybe you shouldnt have kids and keep it in your pants. And stop trading them for pathetic selfish things like alochol, drugs, parties, friends, boyfriends/girlfriends. And most of all dont bring them into that disgusting inviroment.